Individual Money Coaching
I offer individual coaching and guidance for those with access to $1M+ who are committed to social justice but need help healing the underlying wounds we have related to money. I also offer money coaching to working class organizers and healers who want support in transforming their relationship to money and how that affects their work in the world. Together, we will explore the themes related to money to help you heal, clarify your vision for your life, and move towards a life of meaning and values-alignment. These themes can be: belonging, power, family, community, scarcity, loneliness, career, and vision for justice. I will help you face whatever emotional obstacles block you from knowing exactly what to do with your wealth, and to feel confident in executing your plan.
Perhaps you:
Want to be a person of integrity, and you know that how you’re currently relating to money is not aligned with your values
Feel guilty or ashamed that you have access to wealth and want to find a way to move from guilt into action
Want to give away more money but feel stuck in scarcity, fear or ambivalence
Want to learn how to talk about money more transparently and thoughtfully with those you care about so that you can feel more freedom and ease in your life
Need guidance on finding an aligned vision for your wealth and support in executing it
Have a clear vision for your wealth but you and get stuck in procrastination, avoidance, or fear
Have challenging relationships with your family members and need help talking to them about money in a grounded, confident way
Money coaching will help you move from the isolation, loneliness, and insecurity that comes from relying on wealth for your sense of security toward a life rooted in interdependence, community, and courageous love.
Bottom line: You want to change your relationship with money and figure out what to do with your wealth.
In this coaching program, you will:
Design Your Money Vision
Clarify and make powerful progress toward your long-term vision related to career, social justice, personal growth, community, and family
Identify what interferes with your ability to move toward your goals with clarity and consistency and garner support as you get unstuck
Commit to a giving goal that feels exciting and challenging, and get help with every step of the process of giving
Change Your Relationship With Money
Relate to money in a grounded, creative, and embodied way
Learn about the Internal Family Systems methodology; get help identifying and embracing conflicting feelings and emotions related to money, security, and relationships
Better understand your money-related coping mechanisms and gain tools for changing them
Unearth the deeper fears and insecurities that motivate your unhealthy practices with money
Learn how to thoughtfully and transparently share about your finances with loved ones
Move Toward Interdependence
Get support in deepening your skills related to the Five Pillars of Safety and Security so you can no longer rely solely on your wealth for safety
Map out your relationships and get support and skills in creating more closeness with others
Learn how to invite more people into your financial decisions and vision, and create a life of greater intimacy and interdependence
Explore more expansive strategies for retirement, housing, and/or childcare that broaden your circle of care and support for individuals beyond your nuclear family
Create and implement a plan for giving away money you don’t need, which can include interpersonal giving, funding local community efforts you believe in, and funding social justice movements
Change Your Relationships
Learn how to be a resilient and reliable friend and community member
Figure out how you want to relate to your family of origin; perhaps you want to bring them more meaningfully into your project of wealth redistribution and get closer to them, or perhaps you need boundaries and space to heal from toxicity in those relationships.
Learn how to navigate conflict and challenging conversations with grace and patience
Learn how to communicate more vulnerably and open-heartedly with others
Learn how to give and receive help
Get Support
No longer feel alone in your process of trying to figure out what to do with your money—gain a thoughtful, compassionate, and knowledgeable guide for any and all questions, emotions and challenges, that arise regarding money
Gain an ally who will support you and your beloved(s) to see and work through your blindspots and challenging dynamics
Have a non-judgmental space to explore any shame, doubt, and confusion that arises in this process of moving money
Be held accountable to your action steps and deadlines to ensure you meet your goals
Because here’s the truth:
Our society deliberately creates confusion about money and indoctrinates us into a scarcity mindset. Nearly everyone has a charged relationship with money, unless we get support to work on it intentionally.
We are naturally generous and compassionate. But material wealth can interfere with our ability to think clearly, feel connected to others, and to share the excess wealth we have. Wealthy people are trained to feel scarcity, fear, guilt, and bewilderment regarding money by society—and often by our family of origin.
Long-lasting transformation can only happen when we have a safe, supportive, and compassionate space to work through our fears and challenging emotions. Through transforming our inner world, we are then able to move towards thoughtful, courageous action and share the resources we do not need. We also need the tools to better understand our own financial reality so that we can make well-informed, grounded decisions about money. And the reward for this work is incredibly satisfying!
When we step into a values-aligned life and give away what we do not need, we are able to feel more fulfilled in our lives and content with who we are. There is no greater satisfaction than aligning our actions with our values, and no amount of money that can replace that.
We are also able to help organizations, people, and movements obtain the resources they need to transform our society for the better of all people. We also can start to improve our interpersonal relationships, as money weaves into almost every relationship we have.
(For more about what I believe in, check out my values page!)
I use a tiered pricing structure based on how much wealth you have access to, as I believe that we should pay more for services based on how much wealth we have access to, and because I want each client to feel like they are putting in a meaningful investment into this work. These fees include two 55-minute sessions, access to my coaching materials, my feedback on your worksheets, and access to me through email.
Raised and currently poor & working class : $5-50/mo or trade
Raised wealthy and access to under $1M Check out my group coaching offerings
Access to $1M+: $1000/mo
Redistribution tier 1 - Sponsor money coaching for a poor/working class individual: $1600
Redistribution tier 2 - Sponsor money coaching for two poor/working class couples/families: $2400/mo
Interested? To learn more, sign up for a 55-minute call, which includes a complimentary coaching session, and learn more about the program. This will be a zero pressure environment—we will only work together if it feels like a great fit to both of us. I work with clients in any time zone over video or phone.
PS- Do you have a foundation or donor-advised fund? I can also provide support as you navigate any questions regarding the logistics, strategy, or systems in place for those giving vehicles.